If you always seem to find yourself in the same situation, maybe it’s time to take a good, long look and figure out how you got there. Chances are, you keep repeating the same patterns hoping for a different result.
Of course, I’m referring to the negative aspects of your life. If you keep doing the same thing again and again but experience positive results, by all means – keep doing what you’re doing!
But if you’re asking yourself, “why does this keep happening to me?” chances are you’re in victim mode and have not taken the time to examine your motives and actions to determine how you might arrive at a different outcome.
Self-exploration is hard, I know. But if you’re really honest with yourself, and take the time to really look at the situation, and if you really, truly want a different outcome – which in effect, results in change – then you need to spend some time figuring out why you act and react the way you do in various situations so that you can alter those unhealthy patterns and become the person your soul truly wishes to be!